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[scanninggaydis]

This is Felix Gaeta. I'm not currently available, but I'll get back to you as soon as I can. Have a nice day.

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[scanninggaydis]

It's something you're going to have to get used to, unfortunately. They don't do it a LOT but it happens. Sometimes it sends messages to the wrong person, sometimes it's messages or pictures that we never actually meant to get sent to anyone.

And curiosity, I guess. I have a little bit of experience with both of them. I guess the latter more than the former though I guess biting is sort of something that gets folded in to a lot of kinds of play.

[honourthymother]

Hm, I see. Something similar happened only the other month too, only I was sent a picture of myself I have no recollection of. But thank you for letting me know, I'll be on the lookout from now on.

What do you mean, folded into a lot of kinds of play? My experience in it was purely for survival or fighting. And... Now I am curious as to what you might be able to share on the D/s play. As it stands, I've been told I'm a terrible Submissive. Got me into some trouble for not following rules and so on.

I'd appreciate your input.

[scanninggaydis]

[Survival or fighting, that's....interesting.]

Well, biting might be part of particularly rough sex, pain play. I don't know, maybe pet play? Probably roleplay too. Marking.

And sure I guess I can help. But it's a pretty broad topic. Is there anything you want to know specifically?

[honourthymother]

[ Isn't it just? He's only recently discovered that people like to be bitten. ]

How very interesting. And you've experience in those things?

I suppose I just need to learn my role if anything. In your opinion, what makes a good Submissive?

[scanninggaydis]

I mean, some of them. I've never done pet play, and I've never really gotten into roleplaying. But a little bit of the rest of it, sure.

You know, I don't know that I've ever really thought about that very much. I mean, on a very basic level, I think a good submissive is one who knows how to play or is willing to learn. For me, at least, it's pretty important that they know that they have power and act like it. Being vocal about what they do and don't want to do, even if they don't necessarily know what they want from the start.

But the only real way I would think a submissive could be bad is if they didn't speak up when they were uncomfortable in a scene. Or, I guess, someone who tries to push past the dominant's limits in a scene but that tends to happen less often.

[honourthymother]

I see.

You've given me a lot to consider, Felix. I had not for one moment assumed that I would be getting such substance from a conversating that started as a sort of 'matchmaking' in this City. But I must thank you for sharing with me.

I'd never even considered half the things you brought up. Goodness... Now I feel as though I've been a terrible Submissive this whole time.